truth is guys all girls love confidence but not arrogance so what you really need to do is just be yourself first of all otherwise it will blow up in your face in the end. get to know her what she likes, dislikes, her hobbies, and most importantly what she wants out of life. i know it sounds corney but believe it or not this shit works. what you dont want to do is go up to her and ask for her number without getting to know her first otherwise you will drive her away and she will pretty much forever think of you as "the needy kid". get to know her then get her number text her and get to know her even more then after that ask her if she wants to go see a movie with you because you heard this movie was really good. do not take her to a scary movie this isnt a movie XP. if all you want out of a relationship is tits and sex then your gonna end up alone in life...oh and the reason that asking her what she wants out of life is really important is because if she says "oh i want a bunch of kids" you may want to get the fuck out of there and not look back this world doesnt need another fucked up octomom am i right?